So often, we give our best to our boss or our coworkers or our church family and we are so spent when we get home that our family gets the leftovers.
Leftovers are, 9 times out of 10, gross. Nobody wants leftovers, certainly not on a regular basis.
If we want a thriving marriage, then we must give our spouse our best. The world can take the leftovers, not the one who means the most to us.